Often times the right decision and behaviour choices are the hardest one to make because it sometimes calls us to take risks, get out of our comfort zone and .
You felt good about yourself. You felt accomplished. You felt like you were in control.
I CAN and WILL help you transform a difficult or stressful situation into an opportunity to find a new "edge" and elevate your relationship to THE conflict-free and more close relationship you've always wanted -- and one which you can feel proud of. If commitment is the issue, I'll give you what I believe is the best and most important information to help you steer another person into a mutually committed relationship-- no stupid head-games and no beating-about the bush or pretend "I don't want commitment." If part of you wants to move on and part of you wants to try to get your ex back; or if you have tried to get back together with your ex, but nothing seems to work... Take heart. Getting your ex back is not impossible. It will be challenging, but if there is still some true love left, it is a good sign to begin with.
Even if right now you may not see him/her coming back and it may look like he/she is no longer even thinking of you, if you are not willing to give up and surrender, then fight for your man or woman! But you don't want to look like a psycho or be stuck with a head full of useless strategies-- and damaging yourself in the process. With careful planning -- all big success stories involve planning -- I can help you make your ex realize how important -- and valuable -- your relationship was and is. Best of all, I can help you not only get your ex back but also not lose him/her again after a few short weeks or months. Frequently Asked Questions
1. Can people really change?
Yes. People really can change, but they first have to want to change. You have to be sincerely motivated in order to be prepared to make any kind of change.
2. What makes someone want to change?
I've found there's usually something or someone--a situation, event or individual--that makes people stop and really think deeply about themselves, they realize that they want to change, that they need to change.
3. We both need help, but my partner will not agree to seeing a coach or counsellor
Obviously two heads are better than one head when working on relationship issues, but when that's not possible, I've found that one person working with a relationship coach can and often does save two.
4. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I'm confused and in pain. Can coaching help me?
This is a rough time in your life. Coaching will help you understand what really went wrong in your relationship, heal the pain, re-find your self-worth and then figure out what you want to do next.
5. I really want to find my life partner and soul mate but I can't seem to get myself motivated enough even to look. How can coaching help me?
For twenty percent of us, procrastination is a chronic problem in our lives. Procrastination makes us feel weak or indecisive - and later on, guilty for not doing what we said we would. From personal experience and from knowledge gained working with hundreds of singles, often we tell ourselves to do something that sounds logical but balk at the task because we aren't ready on an emotional level.
Coaching will enable you get to the core of your procrastination: what is your procrastination telling you? May be you need to heal past wounds and work on personal growth before you feel ready to look for someone special. The boost in self-confidence in one area of your life that will greatly improve through coaching.
6. But I have been rejected by the opposite sex so many times. Every time I tried to change and every time I've failed. How will I know that this time it'll work?
Failure and rejection are bound to visit anyone who strives for prizes in life and is not satisfied with the status quo. To be successful you can't be afraid to risk failure. Together, we will carefully examine your situation, your desires, and your challenges and set meaningful goals with inspired action plans so that you are accountable to your own success.
7. Right now I am so disillusioned with love and feel that I have bad luck when it comes to the people I meet. How can coaching get me to trust again?
Coaching will help you identify the patterns in your dating and relationship experiences, why you chose the same kind of people and what you can do to break that pattern. You will feel emotionally strong and healthy enough to leave a relationship that isn't working for you and to chose the right kind of people.
8. Relationships are a two-way affair and it's not always all my fault. What if I change and she doesn't?
You can only change yourself. By focusing on individual responsibility you can learn to accept the fact that you are responsible for the choices you make in your life. This opens you up to opportunity-only then is real change possible.
9. Do you do telephone coaching outside of Canada? Who pays for the phone bill?
Yes. I work with clients from around the world. I cover all the phone bills for the scheduled sessions. However, if you call me outside of the scheduled sessions, you pay for the bill.
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