Women meet lots of guys every day, but only guys with that magical combination turn them on.

1. Men with resources that translate to physical and social “safety” are much more attractive to women than men without. Things such as physical fitness, power, social status, cash income and other material resources make a man very attractive. And many woman will marry because of this attraction.

2. Yet a man has to have more than just the resources, he also has to be willing to share them. This is where emotional attractiveness comes in. Qualities such as warmth, kindness, intelligence, a sense of humor, sociability, trustworthiness and a stable personality make a man EMOTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE. Emotional attractiveness is the foundation on which affection is built upon and many women tend to divorce because of lack of this attraction.

3. That leaves us with one other very important player in this equation - SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

Sexual attraction is a kind of regenerating energy that makes women (and men) quiver with sensation and anticipation (pounding heart, butterflies in the stomach, sweating palms, weak knees, euphoria and so forth). 

 

This is not just about “having sex’ but rather the way a man understands and interprets his sexual thoughts, feelings, fantasies, actions and bodily experiences and his ability to “transfer” those thoughts, feelings, fantasies, actions and bodily experiences to the opposite sex in a way that causes them to also quiver with sensation and anticipation.

Some men do this with so much ease (ready to cause explosions anytime, anywhere), but most men fall somewhere in the great continuum of barely able to cause a ripple and desiring to cause one. The guy at the “desiring” end of the continuum may be a really “nice” guy but unable to inspire stomach butterflies. A woman may even allow him to approach or kiss her but because she doesn’t “feel any sparks” she doesn’t quiver with sensation and anticipation and she doesn’t daydream about him - sexually.

 

If you are reading this article, you probably already know what I am talking about when I say “her attitude towards you could be a lot easier" to work with. Constantly being made to feel that you are not sexually interesting and/or attractive will undermine whatever little self confidence you have!

 

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