They say men are visual creatures by nature-- personally I wish they were not.

I am not saying this because I wish I looked like Cindy Crawford, Lucy Liu, Halle Berry or Naomi Campbell (it wouldn't be so bad though). I am saying this because I think it's just sad that men obsess about women they can never have (and may not be worth much) and ignore or reject women who are in every way more woman but not "Top Model" material.

Some women now find themselves compelled to nip here, tack there, suck out this one, fill up that one, stretch the other one, blow up those two, just to get some resemblance of love from men -- even any man. I am not saying men are to blame for what women choose to do with their bodies -- this is the 21st century! I shouldn't even be writing about it, it's none of my business what who nips and tacks where or what which man finds attractive in which woman.

But I want to show you something. Take my hand, I want you to come with me to where my mind goes -- sometimes.

A man is sitting across a woman, or a man is staring at a woman across the room or even a man is lying on his back on his bed daydreaming of this perfect stranger he only saw once, but instead of seeing her with the eyeballs in his skull he actually can see her with the eyes in his mind; see the feminine in her features.

1. Hair -- relaxed, outgoing and fun

2. Skin -- soft, bright and multi-layered

3. Forehead -- open, confident and upfront

4. Eyes -- warm, charming and exciting

5. Brow -- thoughtful, attentive and empathetic

6. Cheekbones -- mature, responsible and independent

7. Nose - unique, witty and sassy

8. Lips -- inviting, expressive and responsive

9. Neck - graceful, courteous and reasonable

10. Arms -- passionate, loyal and nurturing

11. Hands -- gentle, sensitive and caring

12. Fingers -- hard-working, capable and competent

13. Shoulders -- supportive, dependable and uplifting

14. Bust -- sharp, well-rounded and has moral fiber

15. Back -- disciplined, self-controlled and resilient

16. Bosom -- kind, understanding and compassionate

17. Waist -- deep, profound and self-aware

 

18. Hips -- flexible, accommodating and easy going

19. Butt - bubbly, playful and oomph

 

20. Thighs - tough, capable and driven

 

21. Knees -- generous, tolerant and patient

22. Legs -- steady, courageous and determined

23. Feet -- grounded, unwavering and down-to-earth

24. Body - dynamic, spirited and energetic

25. Woman - BEAUTIFUL!

Now that you've been where my mind goes -- sometimes, don't you think it'd be absolutely wonderful if men could be able to see past the visual and see the feminine in totality? If women could stop trying to present the woman they're not and allow men to see the woman they really are? May be then we can get some true love flowing, because if we are honest with ourselves -- it's far much easier in the 21st Century to become a millionaire or win "Top Model" than to find true love.