There are many me and women who say they know or are with a good man or woman whom they really like, but they are not enthusiastic about the relationship. Their “common sense” tells them that he/she is a keeper; they truly believe and can feel that they can spend the rest of their lives with this person, raise children if they so choose, and have fantastic experiences. The rational part of their brains knows that the relationship would be rich with support, communication and trust but they hesitate because there is no sexual attraction.

So how important is sexual attraction?

Sexual attraction provides that extra oomph that accounts for a marked increase in interest in each other. In contrast to romantic and emotional aspects of attraction which tend to appeal to the rational part of the brain, sexual attraction begins in the most primitive area of the brain giving both men and women a shove to want that woman or that man more.

There are quite a few things you can DO to try to make someone sexually attracted to you (learn a few seduction tricks, hypnotize her or give her pills/herbs to make her horny), most of which don’t really work or work for just a very brief period and you are back to “the relationship lacks that spark”.

But there is ONE very effective and irreversible thing you can do to guarantee your woman (or any other woman for that matter) will always find you sexually attractive. And that is INCREASE YOUR OWN SEXUAL SELF-AWARENESS.

Sexual self-awareness is defined as the tendency to think and reflect about the nature of one’s own sexuality and includes a conscious awareness and:

1) willingness to resolve unhealthy, negative or undesirable aspects of your sexuality;

2) a realistic appreciation of the public impression which your sexuality makes on others;

3) the motivation and desire to be involved in a sexual activity;

4) being assertive about the sexual aspects of your life;

5) the capacity/skills to effectively manage and handle any sexual problems that you might develop or encounter;

6) a positive attitude not only in your own capacity to engage in healthy sexual behaviors but also capacity to experience your own sexuality in a highly satisfying and enjoyable way.

 

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