You make me feel like I am doing a good job in growing!

Christine, I just want to let you know that your coaching is more profound than any other work I have done. The reason for this, I believe, is YOU.

I have never received feedback from anyone in such a non-judgemental way. I was telling a good friend of mine about our work and I told her that when you give me feedback, its feels as though I am deciding myself what to do next! When I explained this to my friend she said, "wow she IS really good!" and I agreed completely. I have heard that
good teachers and coaches make the student feel that they are coming up with the ideas themselves. And even though I know its you...I FEEL its me! Isn't that funny? Its a wonderful feeling to feel synchronized with you in this way.

Also, It is a very powerful feeling for me to work with someone and not feel like I am being judged, criticized, told what to do, have somebody irritated that I didn't do what they wanted me to do, have someone react to the actions or words told to a guy with a look or comment that clearly communicates...ooh that was not a good idea...next time you should do XYZ because by doing X-you are driving
him away blah blah blah. You are so gentle with your suggestions-you make me feel like I am doing a good job in growing! Its truly an amazing experience for me and it feels really good.

I feel that your process is really good for me because I really want to be able to trust my feelings, instincts and decisions and feel good about them. I really appreciate how you want to help me be authentic in my way in the world of love-not scripted with techniques.

Big Hugs,

--  Rachel, Austin, Texas, USA

I am married and with my first child. You helped me so much in my life...

Christine, I'm sure you said many lovely things in your email, but I could not open it. I must not have the right software.

I was just telling Robin how wonderful the last 2 years have been. How just over 2 years ago, I was feeling crappy about my personal life. I emailed you on New Years day and after just 2 years of meeting you, I am married and with my first child. You helped me so much in my life and have made Robin, me and Josh so very happy.

You are like an angel that came into my life. You pushed me and kept me motivated and trying. Thank you. I feel so blessed for having both Robin and Josh and having met you in my hour of need.

I hope that you are well and that your life is as happy and fulfilled as mine.

--  Bob, Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

I feel so free and happy now...I am able to like myself again for the first time in years...

Dear Christine, You are a wonderful person and I can not begin to thank you enough. You explain with such clarity and simplicity that which seems so difficult and
impossible to understand and escape when you're living through it.

I've been able to understand what it was I was doing, all thanks to you and I feel so free and happy now. It genuinely amazed me to discover that every single one of my confidence-lacking behaviours was so formulaic, and
not some complicated maze that was unique to me and that would be impossible to escape. To discover that my behaviour is so standard and obvious was in
itself priceless information that [at last] gave me my first glimmers of hope in moving forward.

Thanks to you, I am able to like myself again for the first
time in years. I've gone from a state of extreme procrastination [I was crippled by this, unable to trust myself to make even small decisions and follow through on them] to proactively making changes to the many things in
my life with which I'm dissatisfied. I'm not talking just about
relationships, but every aspect of my life.

Christine, thank you so much for freeing me from a horrible, cold, dark and lonely prison of misery and passivity. You are the wisest woman I have ever known of, and I thank God for the blessing of finding you.

Wishing you a wonderful 2008. I sincerely hope you reap the same joy, peace and understanding you bring to others. If you yield one tenth of what you've given to me, it will be an abundance! Thank you always..

--  Suzanne, USA

I would not be in this place in my life without your help...

In a weird way, I am glad he broke up with me. It changed me. I feel like someone tapped me on the shoulder and said, "Let's find out what kind of person you really are." The past 2 months have taught me things that really matter to me and what is important in a relationship. Two years ago, I would have said my appearance and how I was able to manipulate a man into doing what I wanted him to do were the most important things in a relationship. But the break-up showed me I better be more than that if I want to be loved the way a woman should be loved. We're back together and this time, I am determined to keep him -- the right way. I would not be in this place in my life without your help.

--  Isabel, Brampton Ontario Canada

Working with you helped me once again believe that there are great women out there...

I just wanted to you to know that you made me feel like someone genuinely cared for me and my happiness. You helped me through the pain, anger and depression.  In this age of "internet people" where everyone is talking to you and no one is listening to you, it is nice to know that we haven't lost our compassion for each other- even if we are total strangers. I am now approaching women, going out on dates and just having a great time.  Working with you helped me once again believe that there are great women out there and one day I'll meet and marry one of them. Too bad you're not single -- and you'd probably say I'm too young for you...J

-- Dan, Oxnard California, United States

Yesterday, Jerry asked me to marry him, and of course I said "YES!"...

Christine, I just wanted to send you a quick note to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. Yesterday, Jerry asked me to marry him, and of course I said "YES!". A year ago, I thought this would never happen to me. Until I saw my destructive pattern for what it was, I was not free enough to see things as they are. The most important thing I probably learned was identifying my emotional triggers and tracking my bodily responses. I was able to stop myself when I started to go on autopilot. If a man didn't call me for a certain amount of time, I didn't panic and perceive that as he had lost interest because I am not good enough. This is what happened to me and Jerry, and to this day he can't believe he found a woman who doesn't pressure him for love and attention. Thank you, Christine.

-- Rokelle, Winter Park, Florida, United States

I probably would never have met Janette if I had not changed my scripts and expectations...

A radically different approach is exactly what I needed. I'd been struggling with my single-ness and it was obvious even to me that whatever I was doing wasn't working. Christine helped me see that what I really needed to do was not learn more techniques on how to attract women but instead decide what I was really looking for, really examine how I was trying to find it and change my scripts and expectations. This whole new way of looking at relationships changed not just how I started seeing relationships but how I approached them.  I started to take more risks and put myself out there without the old fears of how things might not turn out to be how I wanted them to be.  I probably would never have met Janette if I had not changed my scripts and expectations.

I believe that every person still struggling with single-ness "needs" to have gentle and nurturing Coach.  I was fortunate to work with one of the most non-judgemental, down to earth, straight forward and loving human beings I've ever met. Janette and I will always be grateful to you [Christine] for bringing us together.

Michael (42), Canterbury England United Kingdom
 

I'm no longer in the market for pain and rejection...

I don’t know of anyone who worked harder than me to make a guy love her.  There was no length and no low that I wouldn’t go to win men’s attention. Working with Christine helped me see the consequences of my behaviour.  When I met Baird, I was no longer in the market for pain and rejection.  I have learned how to simply be in the company of men I enjoyed being around.   Rather than trying to force things to go the way I wanted, I let things flow between us. This relaxing and letting things just happen was incredibly difficult for me at first, but I knew I had to.  I feel so comfortable and at ease around Baird.  It is wonderful to watch our relationship evolve into a source of happiness and self discovery.

Margo (44), Canada
 

You opened me up new possibilities...

Nothing has changed my life as deeply or as permanently as working with you. Your concepts dig deep and support real change. I made changes that have left me loving my life and loving myself. Instead of needing to get a phone number, or try to squeeze in an appointment for another date,  I was able to comfortably relax and focus on what’s going on in front of me. This opened up whole new possibilities!  I really wish I’d met you earlier and integrated conscious loving in my marriage but everything happens as it should.  I am now in a relationship with a gorgeous, intelligent and loving spiritual woman. She is my kindred spirit. Conscious loving is the best way to love and Christine, you have a very unique and authentic way of teaching it!

Jean L. (51), Canada.
 

Christine helped me change the way I relate to men...

Seeing my inner power differently has changed the way I relate to men. In the past I was aware of my sexual magnetism, but confused about how to use it.

Now, not only am I more likely to allow men to help me, I’m also conscious of my gifts for them. I am generous with my open, admiring receptiveness and they find it as delicious as I find their masculine presence delicious. This has created a satisfying exchange in itself.

Dorin (38), England, United Kingdom
 

I am thoroughly enjoying the journey...
 

Before starting to work with you, I just sat by the computer and waited for men to email me. If a guy told me he’d call, I’d sit by the phone and wait.  And if a guy showed the slightest interest, I would hang on to it with my dear life.  You made me realize that to become a guy magnet, I must learn to think and date like a guy. I had to increase my chances to see and be seen by as many men as possible. Since I started dating for a good time, to have new experiences, enjoy myself and really learn just what kind of guys really rock my world, I have guys calling me all the time. Dating is truly a numbers game. Christine you were right on target.

Samantha N (43), Toronto, Canada.
 

I left every session knowing that when I was ready love would find me...

Christine is a wonderful listener whose every aspect exudes warmth and unusual sensitivity. She is the kind of person you just gravitate towards. Her positive and uplifting wit leaves you feeling "I can do this!" I left every session knowing that when I was ready love would find me - and it did. It took many turns but I finally met my Soul Mate, best friend, lover, companion and the most wonderful husband. Our dream is to travel the world (including Christine's homeland in Africa) and see all the wonderful things someday but, if we don't that's ok we will still always have each other.

 Eleanor (45), Toronto, Canada
 

I would probably have never attracted a woman like Caitlyn if I hadn’t worked on making myself a better mate...

I probably should have done this fifteen years ago, or even before that. I thought I was fine. And in some ways I was. I’ve got a good job, make a pretty decent income and have dated some of the most gorgeous women in town.  But I’d never been able to keep a relationship going for longer than one year. Although I was aware of some of the mistakes I’d made, I was unaware of the extent to which my emotional history living in constant and severe stress in childhood was influencing my choices and affecting my relationships. Acting on your [Christine] advice, I took a six-month relationship fast.  Having no woman in my life was boring at first but as I discovered more of myself, I found my perspective on love, relationships, women and life changing. I met Caitlyn at a Christmas party.  There was something so sweet about her that I was immediately drawn to her. She is beautiful, drama-free and very giving person.  I would probably have never attracted a woman like Caitlyn if I hadn’t worked on making myself a better mate.

Gary (43), Senior Leasing Specialist
 

My fiancé and I are getting closer together every day....

The nice thing about Christine is that she’s not one of those people who pretends to know all the answers and tell you what to do. Instead she very whole-heartedly puts herself 100% fully and present into her work helping you delve much deeper to find your own answers from within. The awareness process enabled me to take responsibility for how I allow my emotions and feelings be my worst enemy. After going through the exercises, I soon realized that I was actually making my feelings my most powerful ally.

Within just 4 weeks working with Christine, I was able to pull my life together, implement changes and really live life everyday, and not live my life around someone else's. My anger, jealousy, self-doubt and negativity is gone. Rather than judging what should be happening I now just sit back and allow myself to become fully engaged and open to what the situation will show me. And when I am fully engaged and open, I am truly intimate. Little does my fiancé (we are now engaged) know, but he has been affected by my new found attitude and energy and he and I are getting closer together every day.

Gina (32), Los Angeles, California, United States

My loneliness and depression was gradually replaced...

I felt silly at first, then I thought to myself, what have I got to lose. But with each hour I spent in coaching, my loneliness and depression were gradually replaced by a growing inner strength and determination to understand who I was and what my soul wanted for me. One of the things I'd always wanted to do was work with troubled youth, and so enrolled in night school. It was here at night school that I met him. The day I first saw David, I remember it was right after a law enforcement lecture, I felt a powerful bond that I’d never felt with anyone before. I walked up to him and introduced myself. The next day he asked me out for coffee, and we’ve been together since.

Robbie Kennedy (38), Toronto, ON. Canada
 

He had a girlfriend and I felt really scared...

Augustino and I had spent months working on a project for the company we both worked for.  The long hours, cold take outs and working weekends created a bond between us, but Augustino didn’t look exactly like my “type”. He was a little plump and was balding. Two days after presenting our project to the Board of Directors and getting a pat on the back from the boss, I left for a two week's vacation in Alabama where my sister and her husband live.  I was surprised when I found myself thinking a lot about Augustino.  I returned to work early hoping to see him, but he and his girlfriend had gone away on vacation in Mexico. I felt really scared. I called you [Christine] because I wanted reassurance from an expert that my feelings were normal and things would get better with time. I spent the next two months working on what is important for me in a relationship and the type of partner I was looking for.  I created my five lists, my action plan and lived my life as if I was in a loving and happy relationship.  At work, I tried to avoid direct contact with Augustino as much as was possible. One Friday night, like I had done eight Friday nights in a row, I set my dinner table for two, dressed up and put a romantic number on the stereo.  I heard a knock on the door and almost fainted when I saw who it was. Augustino had broken up with his girlfriend two months ago after he told her he thought he was in love with me - and I didn't even know. Who could have thought this was how it would all end.  We will be getting married in the summer of 2006. Christine, I love you so much. Thank you.  

Brenda Oiushima (44).  Canada.
 

I believe I just met my true soul mate...

I guess I wanted to reach out & tell you how I'm doing. Your timing is never wrong. I believe I just met my true soul mate. Time will tell. I am 37 years of age and have never had this experience before. To anyone else don't settle and don't give up. This is a feeling that words can not express.

Carolyn, New York, United States
 

I developed the balls to go talk to a woman...

I stumbled upon Christine’s website at the time I just got out of five year relationship and I was a little f**** up. Even though my family and friends meant well they simply didn’t have the skills or time to give me the guidance I needed. Christine helped me get over my relationship, get my shit together, become comfortable with myself, develop the balls to go talk to a woman, really enjoy where I am going and being my own person. For the first time, I am putting in a lot less work and starting to be who I naturally am.

Working with Christine was so much fun. I never missed a session. I truly love the person I've become after her coaching. If you want to move forward quickly, Christine is your coach!

 Mark Lewis, Hartford, Connecticut, United States
 

You helped me see that I had nothing to bring into a relationship except my opinions and my beliefs...

I constantly questioned myself and my own worth and this impacted on my relationships and ability as a lover. You helped me see that I had nothing to a relationship except my opinions and my beliefs. I could not reach out to others to form a relationship when I was not in touch and secure within myself. You taught me how to be aware of my feelings, my thoughts, my strengths, my weaknesses, my values and my wants, and listen with an open mind and heart. I am sure that if I had not learned this I would not have attracted the most loving woman in the world. Yours is truly a labor of love and I am sure God above is smiling on you. 

Matt, Greensburg Pennsylvania United States
 

I had always been curious to know how we can meet our soul mate...

For years I learned almost any pick-up line in the book. Sometimes I got lucky but most of the time I got lots of rejection and wasted energy. I enrolled in your coaching program out of curiosity.  I had always been curious to know how we can meet our soul mate, and if maybe I had already met my soul mate without even realizing it. But what I learned is the "wake up" call that I needed in my life. I came to realize that the search for a soul mate is essentially a search for my own balance. Doing all the exercises increased my self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. I have more confidence taking the first step knowing that I am worthy of any relationship, especially a soul mate one.

 Karl G (44) San Jose, California, United States
 

I gained the courage to tell her how much I love her...

I am a really nice guy and because of this I had the habit of coming to the rescue of women who needed me and always ended up being their “best friend” instead of the lover I wanted to be. One girl, I was so desperately in love with, would always call me to tell me about her guy and I listened and cried. With your (Christine) help, I gained the confidence and courage to tell this girl how much I love her. We are engaged to married next summer.

Hassan, Toronto.
 

I was heartbroken when she left me...

I was the type of man who falls in love fast and hard. Whenever I was in love, I compromised my beliefs, deserted my family and friends especially those who did not approve of my choice of woman. I lavished her with gifts and attention until I could give no more and they’d all leave me accusing me of being “selfish” and “controlling”.  I met Ada through a mutual friend. She was free spirited and a lot of fun.  I was very much in love with her that I gave up football which I really like but Ada didn’t. I started to party and drink hard just to be around her and her friends.  I used to go to church but gave that up because of the hangovers. I was heartbroken when she left me for someone else. I barely managed from one day to another. I cried a lot and went back to church and praying.  But nothing that I did could fill the empty place in my life. I knew I needed help and found your [Christine] website. I read it like four time before I had the courage to pick up the phone and call.  Almost 6 months from the day I called, I met Lucy.  This relationship is different from all my other relationships. I am not trying to get Lucy to love me or be her clone.  She doesn’t enjoy football, but doesn’t mind me playing as often as I wish.  We go to church every Sunday and enjoy quite evenings just cuddling and watching TV or reading a book. Thank God, I learned from my mistakes and broke the pattern that almost ruined my life.
 
Jeffrey P. (42). Canada
 

After my divorce, I lost all confidence in my sexual attractiveness...

I had always had trouble having sex and was not sure why. And after my divorce, I lost all confidence in my sexual ability. Coaching helped me understand and practice my knowledge on an intuitive level. You helped me rediscover my sexual potential, give myself the permission to let my hair down and discover my wild side. My whole outlook to life has changed I enjoy life a lot more. Thank you Christine for helping me turn things around to make them work for me.

Heather Harrison (41), Toronto, Canada.
 

We had wonderful relationship but always felt sexually incomplete...

We had wonderful relationship but always felt sexually incomplete. Through coaching we both became aware that that “something missing” in our relationship was the spiritual connection.  Since making the shift from personal to selfless love we have an endless supply of loving sexual energy and many playful moments - we experience spiritual ecstasy more and more. Thank you Christine for making this possible in our lifetime.

Joyce and Hank (54, 60). Canada.
 

My ex constantly put me down and compared me to other women...

My ex constantly put me down and compared me to other woman. He ignored and treated me like I was not an important part of his life. When I complained he broke it off. I felt hurt and betrayed.  I decided to hire your [Christine] services to build up my self-esteem.  I met my ex two months after starting coaching and he commented that I looked and spoke like a different woman. Two days after our meeting he called saying he wanted to move back in. But I am a different woman. I believe that I deserve a lot when it comes to love. You [Christine] helped me create a new positive picture of myself and I am not taking any less than I deserve.

Natalie (37). Canada.
 

I was so glad to come across your website...

You have a very simple and practical way of explaining life's complexities. I’ve been on the spiritual path for over 7 years and have read hundreds of essays and articles, bought audiotapes, books, videotapes etc., but few people have the clear insight into the very nature of our deepest being that you have. All I can say is that at last someone is bringing in some new ideas and perspective. We as a society really need to start treating sexual relationships with greater realism and authenticity. We need to stop all the hidden agendas and hate between genders. Let's just get along and love one another.

 
Anne-Marie Boudot, Montreal, Canada
 

She is the real thing...

Christine is truly an amazing woman and an expert on conscious loving.  She radiates sincere warmth, compassion and total acceptance which can only come from a deep understanding and intensive experience with conscious loving. She is the real thing.

Rick (49), Toronto, ON., Canada