Approach To Relationship Coaching
A real relationship is created when you are being real! My approach to coaching emphasizes on relationships that happen primarily along the flow of AUTHENTIC RELATING — with openness, honesty, straightforwardness, and connecting from the heart and soul - rather than by game-playing, deception, tricks or manipulation. For most people accustomed to the traditional “how to get a good reaction using carefully crafted words, actions and behaviours" approach, this requires a tectonic shift in how you view and how you relate to the opposite sex. It's easier to memorize canned words and execute a set of tricks or techniques, but these behaviours are the least effective part of who you are and quite useless beyond the initial phase of a relationship. The state of the "real you" always comes through! At some point, the real you has to show up and engage someone man-to-woman, heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul - without the memorized lines, stories, routines, methods, tricks and techniques. Unfortunately, this is where most relationships stagnate or end. I work with you to help you openly, honestly and naturally express your interest, feelings (and love) WITHOUT fear, clingy-neediness, pushy, overly aggressive or passive aggressive victim mentality - and WITHOUT using mind games. I work with WHO YOU ARE (your strengths, specific needs and the needs of your partner) as opposed to some external "one-fits-all" formula, system or method. My clients report feeling more together, more connected with the deepest aspects of themselves and more fulfilled in their relationships. Learn more about working with me. Learn more about coaching fees and packages.