I don't know of anyone who worked harder than me to make a guy love her. There was no length and no low that I wouldn't go to win men's attention. Working with Christine helped me see the consequences of my behaviour. When I met Baird, I was no longer in the market for pain and rejection. I have learned how to simply be in the company of men I enjoyed being around. Rather than trying to force things to go the way I wanted, I let things flow between us. This relaxing and letting things just happen was incredibly difficult for me at first, but I knew I had to. I feel so comfortable and at ease around Baird. It is wonderful to watch our relationship evolve into a source of happiness and self discovery.
Margo, Canada
I was divorced for a couple years, anti-marriage. Mostly I was really tired of losers and liars. A friend who'd worked with Christine gave me some excellent advice and told me to work with Christine for a few sessions and see how it goes. With every session, I discovered a lot more about myself. When I met my husband, we both weren't looking for a serious relationship because we had both suffered through bad marriages and had an appreciation for someone that would treat us good. Both of us know that if we had met a little earlier, it likely would have been the wrong timing. We both lived virtually parallel lives and would not have worked out had we met before we matured and mellowed. I am a very happy woman, thanks to Christine.
Cecila, Baltimore USA
I was very much in love with her to the point that I lost myself, compromised my beliefs, deserted my family and friends especially those who did not approve of my choice of woman. I lavished her with gifts and attention until I could give no more and they'd all leave me accusing me of being 'selfish' and 'controlling'. I was heartbroken when she left me barely managed from one day to another. I found your [Christine] website. Almost 6 months from the day I called, I met Lucy. This relationship is different from all my other relationships. I am not trying to get Lucy to love me or be her clone. Thank God, I learned from my mistakes and broke the pattern that almost ruined my life.
Jeffrey P. Canada
The nice thing about Christine is that she's not one of those people who pretends to know all the answers and tell you what to do. Instead she very whole-heartedly puts herself 100% fully and present into her work helping you delve much deeper to find your own answers from within. The awareness process enabled me to take responsibility for how I allow my emotions and feelings be my worst enemy. After going through the exercises, I soon realized that I was actually making my feelings my most powerful ally.
Within just 4 weeks working with Christine, I was able to pull my life together, implement changes and really live life everyday, and not live my life around someone else's. My anger, jealousy, self-doubt and negativity is gone. Rather than judging what should be happening I now just sit back and allow myself to become fully engaged and open to what the situation will show me. And when I am fully engaged and open, I am truly intimate. Little does my fiance (we are now engaged) know, but he has been affected by my new found attitude and energy and he and I are getting closer together every day.
Gina (32), California, USA (Married Dec 08!)
A radically different approach is exactly what I needed. I'd been struggling with my singleness and it was obvious even to me that whatever I was doing wasn't working. Christine helped me see that what I really needed to do was not learn more techniques on how to attract women but instead decide what I was really looking for, really examine how I was trying to find it and change my scripts and expectations. This whole new way of looking at relationships changed not just how I started seeing relationships but how I approached them. I started to take more risks and put myself out there without the old fears of how things might not turn out to be how I wanted them to be. I probably would never have met Janette if I had not changed my scripts and expectations.
I believe that every person still struggling with singleness "needs" to have gentle and nurturing Coach. I was fortunate to work with one of the most non-judgemental, down to earth, straight forward and loving human beings I've ever met. Janette and I will always be grateful to you [Christine] for bringing us together.
Michael (42), Canterbury, England, UK
I just wanted to you to know that you made me feel like someone genuinely cared for me and my happiness. You helped me through the pain, anger and depression. In this age of "internet people" where everyone is talking to you and no one is listening to you, it is nice to know that we haven't lost our compassion for each other- even if we are total strangers. I am now approaching women, going out on dates and just having a great time. Working with you helped me once again believe that there are great women out there and one day I'll meet and marry one of them. Too bad you're not single -- and you'd probably say I'm too young for you...
Dan, Oxnard California, United States
Dear Christine, You are a wonderful person and I can not begin to thank you enough. You explain with such clarity and simplicity that which seems so difficult and impossible to understand and escape when you're living through it.
I've been able to understand what it was I was doing, all thanks to you and I feel so free and happy now. It genuinely amazed me to discover that every single one of my confidence-lacking behaviours was so formulaic, and not some complicated maze that was unique to me and that would be impossible to escape. To discover that my behaviour is so standard and obvious was in itself priceless information that [at last] gave me my first glimmers of hope in moving forward.
Thanks to you, I am able to like myself again for the first time in years. I've gone from a state of extreme procrastination [I was crippled by this, unable to trust myself to make even small decisions and follow through on them] to proactively making changes to the many things in my life with which I'm dissatisfied. I'm not talking just about relationships, but every aspect of my life.
Christine, thank you so much for freeing me from a horrible, cold, dark and lonely prison of misery and passivity. You are the wisest woman I have ever known of, and I thank God for the blessing of finding you.
Wishing you a wonderful 2009. I sincerely hope you reap the same joy, peace and understanding you bring to others. If you yield one tenth of what you've given to me, it will be an abundance! Thank you always..
Suzanne, USA
Christine, I just want to let you know that your coaching is more profound than any other work I have done. The reason for this, I believe, is YOU.
I have never received feedback from anyone in such a non-judgemental way. I was telling a good friend of mine about our work and I told her that when you give me feedback, its feels as though I am deciding myself what to do next! When I explained this to my friend she said, "wow she IS really good!" and I agreed completely. I have heard that good teachers and coaches make the student feel that they are coming up with the ideas themselves. And even though I know its you...I FEEL its me! Isn't that funny' Its a wonderful feeling to feel synchronized with you in this way.
Also, It is a very powerful feeling for me to work with someone and not feel like I am being judged, criticized, told what to do, have somebody irritated that I didn't do what they wanted me to do, have someone react to the actions or words told to a guy with a look or comment that clearly communicates...ooh that was not a good idea...next time you should do XYZ because by doing X-you are driving him away blah blah blah. You are so gentle with your suggestions-you make me feel like I am doing a good job in growing! Its truly an amazing experience for me and it feels really good.
I feel that your process is really good for me because I really want to be able to trust my feelings, instincts and decisions and feel good about them. I really appreciate how you want to help me be authentic in my way in the world of love-not scripted with techniques.
Big Hugs, Rachel, Texas, USA
Christine, I'm sure you said many lovely things in your email, but I could not open it. I must not have the right software.
I was just telling my wife how wonderful the last 2 years have been. How just over 2 years ago, I was feeling crappy about my personal life. I emailed you on New Years day and after just 2 years of meeting you, I am married and with my first child. You helped me so much in my life and have made us so very happy.
You are like an angel that came into my life. You pushed me and kept me motivated and trying. Thank you. I feel so blessed for having my wonderful family and having met you in my hour of need.
I hope that you are well and that your life is as happy and fulfilled as mine.
Bob, Alberta, Canada (Married 07)
I should have done this fifteen years ago, or even before that. I'd never been able to keep a relationship going for longer than one year. Although I was aware of some of the mistakes I'd made, I was unaware of the extent to which my emotional history living in constant and severe stress in childhood was influencing my choices and affecting my relationships. I discovered more of myself, I found my perspective on love, relationships, women and life changing. I met Caitlyn at a Christmas party. There was something so sweet about her that I was immediately drawn to her. She is beautiful, drama-free and very giving person. I would probably have never attracted a woman like Caitlyn if I hadn't worked on making myself a better mate.
Gary (43), Senior Leasing Specialist
Augustino and I had spent months working on a project for the company we both worked for. The long hours, cold take outs and working weekends created a bond between us, but Augustino didn't look exactly like my 'type'. He was a little plump and was balding. Two days after presenting our project to the Board of Directors and getting a pat on the back from the boss, I left for a two week's vacation in Alabama where my sister and her husband live. I was surprised when I found myself thinking a lot about Augustino. I returned to work early hoping to see him, but he and his girlfriend had gone away on vacation in Mexico. I felt really scared. I called you [Christine] because I wanted reassurance from an expert that my feelings were normal and things would get better with time. I spent the next two months working on what is important for me in a relationship and the type of partner I was looking for. I created my five lists, my action plan and lived my life as if I was in a loving and happy relationship. At work, I tried to avoid direct contact with Augustino as much as was possible. One Friday night, like I had done eight Friday nights in a row, I set my dinner table for two, dressed up and put a romantic number on the stereo. I heard a knock on the door and almost fainted when I saw who it was. Augustino had broken up with his girlfriend two months ago after he told her he thought he was in love with me - and I didn't even know. Who could have thought this was how it would all end. We will be getting married in the summer of 2006. Christine, I love you so much. Thank you.
Oiushima (44), Canada Married 07)
I was the woman Robin Norwood in her book described as 'a woman who loves too much.' I dated guys who were unavailable emotionally and physically, were inappropriate or uncaring. I just wanted to be loved, but never had my love returned. Christine helped me realized that I did not 'need' a man and all that energy I put into trying to change men, I put into changing how I love. Now I attract emotionally healthier guys and enjoy healthy relationships.
Claire (41), Toronto, Canada
I felt silly at first, then I thought to myself, what have I got to lose. But with each hour I spent in coaching, my loneliness and depression were gradually replaced by a growing inner strength and determination to understand who I was and what my soul wanted for me. One of the things I'd always wanted to do was work with troubled youth, and so enrolled in night school. It was here at night school that I met him. The day I first saw David, I remember it was right after a law enforcement lecture, I felt a powerful bond that I'd never felt with anyone before. I walked up to him and introduced myself. The next day he asked me out for coffee, and we've been together since.
Robbie Kennedy (38), Toronto, ON. Canada
My ex constantly put me down and compared me to other woman. He ignored and treated me like I was not an important part of his life. When I complained he broke it off. I felt hurt and betrayed. I decided to hire your [Christine] services to build up my self-esteem. I met my ex two months after starting coaching and he commented that I looked and spoke like a different woman. Two days after our meeting he called saying he wanted to move back in. But I am a different woman. I believe that I deserve a lot when it comes to love. You [Christine] helped me create a new positive picture of myself and I am not taking any less than I deserve.
Natalie (37). Canada
For years I learned almost any pick-up line in the book. Sometimes I got lucky but most of the time I got lots of rejection and wasted energy. I enrolled in your coaching program out of curiosity. I had always been curious to know how we can meet our soul mate, and if maybe I had already met my soul mate without even realizing it. But what I learned is the "wake up" call that I needed in my life. I came to realize that the search for a soul mate is essentially a search for my own balance. Doing all the exercises increased my self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. I have more confidence taking the first step knowing that I am worthy of any relationship, especially a soul mate one.
Karl G (44) San Jose, California, USA
Before starting to work with you, I just sat by the computer and waited for men to email me. If a guy told me he'd call, I'd sit by the phone and wait. And if a guy showed the slightest interest, I would hang on to it with my dear life. You made me realize that to become a guy magnet, I must learn to think and date like a guy. I had to increase my chances to see and be seen by as many men as possible. Since I started dating for a good time, to have new experiences, enjoy myself and really learn just what kind of guys really rock my world, I have guys calling me all the time. Dating is truly a numbers game. Christine you were right on target.
Samantha N (43), Toronto, Canada
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Margo, Canada
I was divorced for a couple years, anti-marriage. Mostly I was really tired of losers and liars. A friend who'd worked with Christine gave me some excellent advice and told me to work with Christine for a few sessions and see how it goes. With every session, I discovered a lot more about myself. When I met my husband, we both weren't looking for a serious relationship because we had both suffered through bad marriages and had an appreciation for someone that would treat us good. Both of us know that if we had met a little earlier, it likely would have been the wrong timing. We both lived virtually parallel lives and would not have worked out had we met before we matured and mellowed. I am a very happy woman, thanks to Christine.
Cecila, Baltimore USA
I was very much in love with her to the point that I lost myself, compromised my beliefs, deserted my family and friends especially those who did not approve of my choice of woman. I lavished her with gifts and attention until I could give no more and they'd all leave me accusing me of being 'selfish' and 'controlling'. I was heartbroken when she left me barely managed from one day to another. I found your [Christine] website. Almost 6 months from the day I called, I met Lucy. This relationship is different from all my other relationships. I am not trying to get Lucy to love me or be her clone. Thank God, I learned from my mistakes and broke the pattern that almost ruined my life.
Jeffrey P. Canada
The nice thing about Christine is that she's not one of those people who pretends to know all the answers and tell you what to do. Instead she very whole-heartedly puts herself 100% fully and present into her work helping you delve much deeper to find your own answers from within. The awareness process enabled me to take responsibility for how I allow my emotions and feelings be my worst enemy. After going through the exercises, I soon realized that I was actually making my feelings my most powerful ally.
Within just 4 weeks working with Christine, I was able to pull my life together, implement changes and really live life everyday, and not live my life around someone else's. My anger, jealousy, self-doubt and negativity is gone. Rather than judging what should be happening I now just sit back and allow myself to become fully engaged and open to what the situation will show me. And when I am fully engaged and open, I am truly intimate. Little does my fiance (we are now engaged) know, but he has been affected by my new found attitude and energy and he and I are getting closer together every day.
Gina (32), California, USA (Married Dec 08!)
A radically different approach is exactly what I needed. I'd been struggling with my singleness and it was obvious even to me that whatever I was doing wasn't working. Christine helped me see that what I really needed to do was not learn more techniques on how to attract women but instead decide what I was really looking for, really examine how I was trying to find it and change my scripts and expectations. This whole new way of looking at relationships changed not just how I started seeing relationships but how I approached them. I started to take more risks and put myself out there without the old fears of how things might not turn out to be how I wanted them to be. I probably would never have met Janette if I had not changed my scripts and expectations.
I believe that every person still struggling with singleness "needs" to have gentle and nurturing Coach. I was fortunate to work with one of the most non-judgemental, down to earth, straight forward and loving human beings I've ever met. Janette and I will always be grateful to you [Christine] for bringing us together.
Michael (42), Canterbury, England, UK
I just wanted to you to know that you made me feel like someone genuinely cared for me and my happiness. You helped me through the pain, anger and depression. In this age of "internet people" where everyone is talking to you and no one is listening to you, it is nice to know that we haven't lost our compassion for each other- even if we are total strangers. I am now approaching women, going out on dates and just having a great time. Working with you helped me once again believe that there are great women out there and one day I'll meet and marry one of them. Too bad you're not single -- and you'd probably say I'm too young for you...
Dan, Oxnard California, United States
Dear Christine, You are a wonderful person and I can not begin to thank you enough. You explain with such clarity and simplicity that which seems so difficult and impossible to understand and escape when you're living through it.
I've been able to understand what it was I was doing, all thanks to you and I feel so free and happy now. It genuinely amazed me to discover that every single one of my confidence-lacking behaviours was so formulaic, and not some complicated maze that was unique to me and that would be impossible to escape. To discover that my behaviour is so standard and obvious was in itself priceless information that [at last] gave me my first glimmers of hope in moving forward.
Thanks to you, I am able to like myself again for the first time in years. I've gone from a state of extreme procrastination [I was crippled by this, unable to trust myself to make even small decisions and follow through on them] to proactively making changes to the many things in my life with which I'm dissatisfied. I'm not talking just about relationships, but every aspect of my life.
Christine, thank you so much for freeing me from a horrible, cold, dark and lonely prison of misery and passivity. You are the wisest woman I have ever known of, and I thank God for the blessing of finding you.
Wishing you a wonderful 2009. I sincerely hope you reap the same joy, peace and understanding you bring to others. If you yield one tenth of what you've given to me, it will be an abundance! Thank you always..
Suzanne, USA
Christine, I just want to let you know that your coaching is more profound than any other work I have done. The reason for this, I believe, is YOU.
I have never received feedback from anyone in such a non-judgemental way. I was telling a good friend of mine about our work and I told her that when you give me feedback, its feels as though I am deciding myself what to do next! When I explained this to my friend she said, "wow she IS really good!" and I agreed completely. I have heard that good teachers and coaches make the student feel that they are coming up with the ideas themselves. And even though I know its you...I FEEL its me! Isn't that funny' Its a wonderful feeling to feel synchronized with you in this way.
Also, It is a very powerful feeling for me to work with someone and not feel like I am being judged, criticized, told what to do, have somebody irritated that I didn't do what they wanted me to do, have someone react to the actions or words told to a guy with a look or comment that clearly communicates...ooh that was not a good idea...next time you should do XYZ because by doing X-you are driving him away blah blah blah. You are so gentle with your suggestions-you make me feel like I am doing a good job in growing! Its truly an amazing experience for me and it feels really good.
I feel that your process is really good for me because I really want to be able to trust my feelings, instincts and decisions and feel good about them. I really appreciate how you want to help me be authentic in my way in the world of love-not scripted with techniques.
Big Hugs, Rachel, Texas, USA
Christine, I'm sure you said many lovely things in your email, but I could not open it. I must not have the right software.
I was just telling my wife how wonderful the last 2 years have been. How just over 2 years ago, I was feeling crappy about my personal life. I emailed you on New Years day and after just 2 years of meeting you, I am married and with my first child. You helped me so much in my life and have made us so very happy.
You are like an angel that came into my life. You pushed me and kept me motivated and trying. Thank you. I feel so blessed for having my wonderful family and having met you in my hour of need.
I hope that you are well and that your life is as happy and fulfilled as mine.
Bob, Alberta, Canada (Married 07)
I should have done this fifteen years ago, or even before that. I'd never been able to keep a relationship going for longer than one year. Although I was aware of some of the mistakes I'd made, I was unaware of the extent to which my emotional history living in constant and severe stress in childhood was influencing my choices and affecting my relationships. I discovered more of myself, I found my perspective on love, relationships, women and life changing. I met Caitlyn at a Christmas party. There was something so sweet about her that I was immediately drawn to her. She is beautiful, drama-free and very giving person. I would probably have never attracted a woman like Caitlyn if I hadn't worked on making myself a better mate.
Gary (43), Senior Leasing Specialist
Augustino and I had spent months working on a project for the company we both worked for. The long hours, cold take outs and working weekends created a bond between us, but Augustino didn't look exactly like my 'type'. He was a little plump and was balding. Two days after presenting our project to the Board of Directors and getting a pat on the back from the boss, I left for a two week's vacation in Alabama where my sister and her husband live. I was surprised when I found myself thinking a lot about Augustino. I returned to work early hoping to see him, but he and his girlfriend had gone away on vacation in Mexico. I felt really scared. I called you [Christine] because I wanted reassurance from an expert that my feelings were normal and things would get better with time. I spent the next two months working on what is important for me in a relationship and the type of partner I was looking for. I created my five lists, my action plan and lived my life as if I was in a loving and happy relationship. At work, I tried to avoid direct contact with Augustino as much as was possible. One Friday night, like I had done eight Friday nights in a row, I set my dinner table for two, dressed up and put a romantic number on the stereo. I heard a knock on the door and almost fainted when I saw who it was. Augustino had broken up with his girlfriend two months ago after he told her he thought he was in love with me - and I didn't even know. Who could have thought this was how it would all end. We will be getting married in the summer of 2006. Christine, I love you so much. Thank you.
Oiushima (44), Canada Married 07)
I was the woman Robin Norwood in her book described as 'a woman who loves too much.' I dated guys who were unavailable emotionally and physically, were inappropriate or uncaring. I just wanted to be loved, but never had my love returned. Christine helped me realized that I did not 'need' a man and all that energy I put into trying to change men, I put into changing how I love. Now I attract emotionally healthier guys and enjoy healthy relationships.
Claire (41), Toronto, Canada
I felt silly at first, then I thought to myself, what have I got to lose. But with each hour I spent in coaching, my loneliness and depression were gradually replaced by a growing inner strength and determination to understand who I was and what my soul wanted for me. One of the things I'd always wanted to do was work with troubled youth, and so enrolled in night school. It was here at night school that I met him. The day I first saw David, I remember it was right after a law enforcement lecture, I felt a powerful bond that I'd never felt with anyone before. I walked up to him and introduced myself. The next day he asked me out for coffee, and we've been together since.
Robbie Kennedy (38), Toronto, ON. Canada
My ex constantly put me down and compared me to other woman. He ignored and treated me like I was not an important part of his life. When I complained he broke it off. I felt hurt and betrayed. I decided to hire your [Christine] services to build up my self-esteem. I met my ex two months after starting coaching and he commented that I looked and spoke like a different woman. Two days after our meeting he called saying he wanted to move back in. But I am a different woman. I believe that I deserve a lot when it comes to love. You [Christine] helped me create a new positive picture of myself and I am not taking any less than I deserve.
Natalie (37). Canada
For years I learned almost any pick-up line in the book. Sometimes I got lucky but most of the time I got lots of rejection and wasted energy. I enrolled in your coaching program out of curiosity. I had always been curious to know how we can meet our soul mate, and if maybe I had already met my soul mate without even realizing it. But what I learned is the "wake up" call that I needed in my life. I came to realize that the search for a soul mate is essentially a search for my own balance. Doing all the exercises increased my self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. I have more confidence taking the first step knowing that I am worthy of any relationship, especially a soul mate one.
Karl G (44) San Jose, California, USA
Before starting to work with you, I just sat by the computer and waited for men to email me. If a guy told me he'd call, I'd sit by the phone and wait. And if a guy showed the slightest interest, I would hang on to it with my dear life. You made me realize that to become a guy magnet, I must learn to think and date like a guy. I had to increase my chances to see and be seen by as many men as possible. Since I started dating for a good time, to have new experiences, enjoy myself and really learn just what kind of guys really rock my world, I have guys calling me all the time. Dating is truly a numbers game. Christine you were right on target.
Samantha N (43), Toronto, Canada
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