How Strong Is Your Sexual Vibe?
Getting too many "not
interested" signals
(words, actions, reactions, etc)
from the opposite sex. You may be sending
out the wrong sexual signals,
weak signals or none at all.
If
the opposite sex don't have a
strong sexual perception of you
nothing will work.
Take this quiz to find out just how strong the sexual signals you are giving out are:
1 Do you ever make eye contact with strange men/women?
(a) Often
(b) Only if he/she’s cute
(c) Only if he/she’s cute and you’re feeling adventurous
(d) Rarely, if you’re drunk
(e) No way!
2 You are at a party with no one to talk to. Which man/woman do you pick to approach?
(a) The coolest
(b) The best-looking
(c) The funniest
(d) The wealthiest
(e) The loneliest
3 You’ve caught the eye of a guy/woman who interests you. Do you:
(a) Look away, embarrassed
(b) Smile sweetly and wait for him/her to approach you
(c) Blow a kiss at him/her, sit up straight and open a couple of shirt buttons
(d) Slowly move towards him/her maintaining eye contact
(e) Wave or shout over at him/her or make a direct bee-line
4 OK, so you’re introducing yourselves to each other. Do you:
(a) Let him/her talk about himself/herself while you worry about what you are going to say
(b) Just go with the flow but respond to his/her lead
(c) Skillfully negotiate the conversation so that you’re having a 50:50 interaction about both of you
(d) Don’t talk about personal stuff at all but comment on general things and try to make him/her laugh
(e) Give him/her your potted life history in five minutes
5 You have moved somewhere you can get a little more intimate. What’s your body language?
(a) Demure and slightly cautious - you don’t want him/her to think you’re easy or just after sex
(b) Relaxed but refined - you refrain from body contact
(c) Seductive - you allow your hips, hands or legs to graze his/hers
(d) Cozy - you are acting like old friends already
(e) You already have your hand on his/her thigh
Your SCORE
1.
a = 5; b = 3; c = 2; d =1; e = 0
2. a = 5; b = 4; c = 3; d =2; e = 0
3. a = 0; b = 3; c = 5; d =5; e = 1
4. a = 1; b = 4; c = 5; d =3; e = 0
5. a = 3; b = 1; c = 4; d =1; e = 5
5-10 NO ENTRY: If you’re happy repelling the good and the bad alike, that’s fine. But if you want an occasional smile and nod you need to learn to smile and interact.
11-15
ROAD UNDER CONSTRUCTION: You are halfway to giving out the right signals. If you follow your interests and intuition you could be cruising smoothly without being overbearing or desperate.
16-20 DRIVING AT SPEED LIMIT: You know what you want and how to get it. You know how fast to go and can read other people's sexual signals, but always be careful to go at a speed that will let you stop safely.
21-25 DANGEROUS CURVES AHEAD: No one could accuse you of being backward about coming forward. Nothing wrong with that - but you might want to ask yourself why nobody seems to stick around [???].
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