How Sexually Confident Are You?

Take this short quiz to find out how your sexual confidence fares:

1 Your date is not being as demonstrative as you had hoped. Do you:

(a) Think there must be something about you that's off-putting
(b) Make more effort yourself to provoke a reaction
(c) Think that he/she's having an off-day for whatever reason
(d) Look at your watch, sigh, and tell him/her he/she has "20 seconds to comply!"
 
2 You have met someone new and it seems to be going well. Do you:

(a) Tell no one as nothing may develop and then you'd look a fool
(b) Drop it casually into conversation next time you see your friends
(c) Act as if you've got a secret so you keep people guessing
(d) Ring up all your mates and laugh about it
 
3 You find yourself having bizarre sexual fantasies. Do you:

(a) Worry that you're turning into a pervert
(b) Try to change the course of your thoughts
(c) Think there must be a logical reason and try to analyze it
(d) Tell yourself what a wonderful thing the imagination is and enjoy it
 
4 Someone unexpected or off limits makes a pass at you. Do you:

(a) Tell him/her it's not a good idea and exit quickly
(b) Say that you're flattered, but no thanks
(c) Laugh and tell him/her not to be so cheeky
(d) Love the attention and go for it - whatever the consequences
 

Your SCORE

Mostly a: If sexual confidence were measured in terms of light, you are generating at the level of a 40watt bulb. Honey, you need to turn up the voltage or no one will be able to see what you have to offer. If you want to play the game of love you need to be bolder.

Mostly b: You have a businesslike air about you which some people may find stand-offish. You've got potential but you need to give yourself permission to let your hair down and discover your wild side. You like to be 100 per cent sure that you aren't going to make a fool of yourself sexually, but have you ever considered he/she might be nervous, too?

Mostly c: The sexual spotlight is on you! You have so much sex confidence that a man or woman could be brought to an erotic fever pitch just by daring to think about getting intimate with you. You are a sexual sophisticate, fully tooled up with the right attitude. But do you really believe that you got the "it"?

Mostly d: You are plugged into the National Grid but by making such a show of yourself you're blinding the others to the real you. Enjoy yourself, but try to consider other people's feelings occasionally or you'll just end up with a reputation as a man-eater/playboy.
 

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